divorce lawyer. employment lawyer. visits.
Thursday, March 1st, 2007my motivation has been really good lately. i’m happy about that. i’ve cooked a few times since coming back from paris … i’ve socialized … and i’m getting a lot of to-do’s done.
i saw two lawyers today. the first was an employment lawyer and the other was my divorce lawyer. basically my mood is up because the employment lawyer said that i WAS wrongfully terminated by my company. while on an approved state disability leave, they could not fire me. besides, their reason for firing me has no legal basis as i was already approved by the state. i forked out more money… i am going forward. she asked why it took me so long to see a lawyer. i explained that i didn’t have the mental and emotional capacity to handle any of it since i was sooo depressed. i guess there is a statute of limitations. for people who don’t know what this means, you are given a certain amount of time by the law to file complaints, lawsuits etc. so my time frame is april 21.
my divorce lawyer said that the 80% of our unsold assets was a good offer but if we were to include spousal support and to make it a clean break, i could just give him florida and any profits from the sale of redwood shores would go to me. individual 401k’s would not be divided. i’m talking to him about it this saturday. wish me luck because i don’t want to pay my divorce lawyer any more than the retainer fee.
i feel really charged up and have more energy. as a result, i just got off the phone with one of my former client’s office manager. i invited them over whenever they are able to come over to catch up. the office and i used to do that a few times a year rotating from one person’s house to another. though they were customers, they were friends too. dr. p’s divorce finalized in december and he said he is happy and content.
oh! i also set up a ‘catch up’ lunch with an old friend who i went to high school with.
i feel like i’m having more control over my life and that i’m going down the right road.
OH! and i just did laundry too!
boy will my therapist be happy tomorrow when i see her!
