depression = anger turned inside
if you’re feeling overwhelmed and are considering suicide, call a suicide hotline. u.s.a. 1.800.784.2433 or 1.800.273.8255


note to future husband

Sunday, April 8th, 2007

[GO TO: finding mr. or ms. “right”]


HOW TO LOVE AN ENFP (ME)

  • appreciate my creativity, curiosity, and uniqueness.
  • tell me how much I mean to you and be patient with my need to process how I feel privately before sharing it with you.
  • re-establish harmony quickly.
  • support my need to try new experiences and maintain my many friendships.
  • try not force decisions too quickly, or bug me about being messy.
  • above all - encourage me to keep growing, changing, and experimenting with life.



    1. which personality type are you?
      CLICK HERE to find out.



    if you see this, then it’s me!

  • high energy, friendly, and good natured
  • imaginative, fun loving, and off beat
  • curious; discussions shift quickly from one topic to another
  • warm, concerned, and eager to help solve problems

  • wondering how to communicate with me?

  • focus on interesting and innovative possibilities and new ways of solving problems
  • don’t overwhelm them with facts and details
  • keep things relaxed, warm and flexible


  • WHO’S MY NATURAL PARTNER? INTJ, people who need this is a relationship:

  • be an attentive and respectful listener.
  • appreciate my competency and creativity.
  • give me plenty of privacy and time alone for me to pursue my interests in depth.
  • try not to pressure me to share my feelings before I’m ready.
  • be honest and direct about what you need.
  • above all - respect my independence and need to live my life according to my own standards.


  • how am i suppose to find him?? i’m gonna look for the following things:

  • cool, formal and independent
  • intellectual, logical, and skeptical
  • complex, and challenging with a sometimes superior attitude
  • conservative dressers with an individual look


  • how do i communicate with him when i find him??

  • appeal to their creativity and innovation
  • base your arguments on logical reasoning
  • be organized and avoid errors that undermine your competence


  • where can i find him? what does he do?

      Intellectual property attorney
      News analyst
      Design engineer
      Biomedical researcher
      Network integration specialist
      Software developer
      Psychiatrist
      Cardiologist
      Freelancer writer
      Inventor
      Media planner
      Chief Financial Officer
      Webmaster
      Architect
      Desktop publishing specialist



    growing up, he got this from his parents. a happy INTJ = a happy me!

  • don’t push them into social situations; respect their hesitancy and follow their lead
  • provide a constantly expanding source of intellectual stimulation
  • expect an analytical thinking style, and don’t take their criticism personally


  • OH MY GOSH! SOUNDS LIKE MY PERFECT PARTNER IS A LITTLE BITCH! LOL!
    JUST kidding, my perfect partner!



    [GO TO: finding mr. or ms. “right”]





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